Sexuality
Sexuality is a natural and important aspect of human life, and it applies to people of all backgrounds and abilities, including those with SEND (Special Educational Needs and Disabilities). People with SEND have the same right to explore and express their sexuality as anyone else. However, there are specific considerations and challenges related to sexuality and people with disabilities that deserve attention and understanding
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People with disabilities, like all individuals, have diverse sexual orientations and gender identities. It is essential to recognise and respect the unique preferences and identities of each person.
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Some individuals with certain types of disabilities may have communication difficulties. It is crucial to ensure that any sexual interactions are based on informed consent and clear communication.
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People with disabilities may face barriers in accessing comprehensive and accurate information about sexuality. Educators, caregivers, and support staff should provide appropriate and accessible sexual education tailored to individual needs.
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Individuals with disabilities may be more vulnerable to abuse or exploitation. Efforts should be made to educate and empower them to recognise and report any forms of abuse.
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Access to supportive resources, such as counseling services or support groups, can be beneficial in addressing any specific challenges related to sexuality and disability.
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It is crucial to respect the privacy and personal space of individuals with disabilities when discussing sexuality-related matters.
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Some individuals with physical disabilities may require specific accommodations or assistive devices to engage in sexual activities comfortably and safely.
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Societal attitudes and stigma around disability and sexuality can be harmful. It is essential to promote inclusive and positive attitudes towards people with disabilities and their sexuality.
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Building supportive relationships with family members, friends, and caregivers is crucial in fostering a healthy and positive approach to sexuality for individuals with SEND.
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Encouraging autonomy and decision-making is important for all individuals, including those with disabilities, when it comes to their relationships and sexual experiences.
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Professionals working with individuals with disabilities should be aware of the legal and ethical implications surrounding issues of consent, capacity, and safeguarding.
Addressing the topic of sexuality and people with SEND requires sensitivity, openness, and a commitment to promoting dignity, respect, and autonomy for all individuals. By providing appropriate support, education, and resources, we can help individuals with disabilities navigate their sexuality in a safe and fulfilling manner, empowering them to lead fulfilling lives as active and respected members of society.
Further Support
Health Services in Schools Youth Workers
HSIS Youth Workers are a team of professionally qualified youth workers. The team currently work in Wirral Secondary Schools, Wirral Six Form and Wirral Met College
Each school/college has a designated HSIS Youth Worker that provides young people with an opportunity to access confidential support on any issues which may be affecting them.
We provide support to young people around Building Resilience, Reducing risks, Relationships, Sexual Health (including issuing condoms in some schools) Drugs, Alcohol, Emotional Health and Well-Being, Stress and Anxiety.
To get support in school/ college contact your school pastoral lead of head of year.
Brook
This service is offered to young people under 20.
We are an appointment only clinic. Same day appointments can be made via telephone or at reception during our opening times (pre-appointment assessments may be necessary).
Call 0151 670 0177 to make an appointment or for any enquiries.
Opening hours are:
Monday – Thursday: 3pm until 6pm
Friday: 3pm until 5.30pm
Saturday: 1pm until 3.30pm
14 Whetstone Lane, Birkenhead, Merseyside, CH41 2QR
Website: http://www.brook.org.uk
Please be aware that we do not offer the coil/IUD or IUS and implant services may not be available on the same day.
New Horizons
New Horizons in Wallasey is a social and support group for LGBTQ+ young people. Get in touch to join or to find more information about New Horizons.
Sexual Health Wirral - NHS
We are working hard to restore our services at this time and appreciate your patience and understanding. Our walk-in wait clinics remain suspended, but care and support is still available - find out more. Telephone assessment line open 8.00am - 5.00pm (Mon - Fri)
Telephone: 0300 123 5474
Let's Work It Out @ The HIVE
LGBTQ+ support group for 13-19 years (up to 25 with additional needs.)
Held at the Hive, for more details please call : 0151 705 8000
If you need help, support or guidance please get in touch:
Email: talktothehive@thehiveyouthzone.org or send us a private message on our Facebook page.
Wirral Youth Zone, named by young people as ‘The Hive’, is a purpose-built facility for young people aged 8 – 19, and up to 25 for those with disabilities. Young people from across Wirral have access to fantastic facilities for a cost of £5 for an annual membership and 50p per visit. The Youth Zone provides a safe environment where young people can come and enjoy themselves and enables young people to raise their aspirations and confidence to create a happier and healthier generation.
SHOUT
Shout is an affiliate of Crisis Text Line® in the UK that provides free, confidential support, 24/7 via text. It’s the first free 24/7 texting service in the UK for anyone in crisis anytime, anywhere. Shout is available in England, Scotland, Wales, and Northern Ireland
Text SHOUT to 85258 in the UK to text with a trained Crisis Volunteer
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Text BLUE to 85258 to get resources and sign posting information.
Every texter is connected with a real-life human being trained to bring people from a hot moment to a cool calm place through active listening and collaborative problem-solving. All of our Crisis Volunteers donate their time to helping people in crisis.
LGBT Foundation
Our helpline, as always, will continue to be there for all LGBT people in need. For 45 years our helpline has been a lifeline to hundreds of thousands of people. If you are feeling worried, isolated or alone, know that you can pick up the phone and reach out to us on 0345 3 30 30 30.
The Proud Trust
The Proud Trust are an organisation that is run by and for people who identify as LGBTQ+ they offer excellent resources, support and training.
https://www.theproudtrust.org/
Mermaids UK
Mermaids supports gender-diverse children and young people until their 20th birthday, as well as their families and professionals involved in their care. Support includes parent and young person specific forums, a helpline and a group for young people and parents to attend (once registered)
Stonewall
Stonewall is a national organisation supporting LGBTQ+ rights and fights inequalities. They have a glossary of terms, but young people know themselves best and it is always good to have a conversation with them if you are unsure how they identify or what it means to them.