Many families enjoy Bonfire Night on the 5th of November. Fireworks, sparklers and community events can be exciting.
However, some children and young people with special educational needs and disabilities (SEND) may find Bonfire Night hard. Loud noises, crowds, bright lights and changes to their usual routine can feel overwhelming.
This guide shares simple ways to help your child enjoy Bonfire night and feel safe.
Getting ready for Bonfire Night
Many children feel more comfortable when they know what to expect. Talk to your child about Bonfire Night before the day arrives. Explain what they might see, hear and do.
Looking at photos or videos of fireworks together can help your child get used to what they may see and hear.
Some families find it helpful to create a simple visual plan for the evening. For example, the plan could show travelling to an event, watching fireworks and returning home afterwards. This can help your child understand what will happen and when.
Attending a fireworks display
If your child wants to attend a fireworks display, planning ahead can help.
Some children find large crowds overwhelming. If you are organising your own celebration, consider keeping it small and inviting a few family members or close friends. Let your child know who will be there. This can help them feel more prepared.
If you are setting off fireworks at home, you may want to choose low-noise fireworks. These are designed to make less noise and may be better for children who are sensitive to sound.
Some families may prefer a quieter fireworks display. These displays are designed to reduce loud bangs.
Local examples include Sparks in Prenton Park which uses low-noise fireworks. https://whatsonthewirral.co.uk/event/sparks-in-prenton-park-quiet/
There is also the Birkenhead School Parents' Association Fireworks event. It offers an optional silent disco headset which may help some children with loud noises. https://www.pta-events.co.uk/birkenhead/index.cfm?&eventTaskCustomerUpdated=true
Check event details before you book, as arrangements may change.
Try arriving early and choosing a viewing spot away from the busiest areas. This can make the evening feel calmer and give your child space if they need a break.
Ear defenders or noise-cancelling headphones can also help to reduce the impact of loud noises at these displays.
Creating a calm space
Some children may need time away from the sights, sounds and activity of Bonfire Night.
Before the event begins, think about where your child can go if they feel overwhelmed. This could be a quiet room with blankets, cushions or favourite toys. If you are attending an event outdoors, look for a quieter area away from the main crowd. Tell your child about this space before the event starts. Remind them they can use it whenever they need a break.
Having a quieter place available can help children feel calmer and more in control.
Enjoy Bonfire Night at home
Not every child will want to attend a fireworks display. You could try arts and crafts, colouring activities, baking or reading together.
Some children may enjoy watching fireworks on television instead of seeing them in person.
Celebrating at home means you can choose activities that work for your child and fit their usual routine.
Remember
Bonfire Night is different for every family.
Some children with SEND may enjoy watching fireworks. Other may prefer quieter activates at home.
The most important thing is to follow your child’s lead. Talk about what to expect, plan ahead and be prepared to change plans if needed.
Whether your child attends a fireworks display, watches from home or chooses a different activity, the most important thing is that they feel safe and comfortable.
This can help make Bonfire Night a positive experience for everyone.