Tactile
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Types of Touch
Light Touch
This is often the most upsetting type of touch for children with sensory processing differences. It includes:
Soft touches from others
Certain clothing textures
Feeling grass, sand, or dirt
Washing the face or hair
Brushing teeth
Food textures in the mouth
Tactile Processing
Understanding the Sense of Touch
Tactile receptors are found not only on the skin but also inside the mouth, throat, digestive system, and ear canals. These receptors pick up different types of touch and send signals to the brain through the central nervous system
Deep Pressure
This type of touch is usually more tolerable. It includes:
Bear hugs
Massage
Banging or crashing
Rolling and bouncing
Deep pressure also gives helpful feedback to muscles and joints.
Vibration
Vibrating toys or appliances can be alarming for some children.
Temperature
Some children react strongly to temperature changes. For example:
A lukewarm bath may feel too hot
Some crave freezing cold food
Others prefer very hot meals
Pain
Children may react differently to pain:
Some are distressed by small scrapes
Others may not notice serious injuries
Tactile Defensive Behaviours
Children may show tactile defensiveness if they:
Avoid face washing or touching
React strongly to haircuts or nail trimming
Pull away from hugs or friendly touches
Dislike being touched while dressing
Avoid physical contact with friends
Feel threatened when approached from behind
Get upset when people stand too close
Prefer long sleeves or jackets even when warm
Avoid certain textures or fabrics
Dislike messy play (e.g. sand, paint, paste)
Tactile Adaptation
Most people quickly get used to touch sensations. For example, we stop noticing our socks after a few minutes. But children with tactile differences may stay aware of these sensations for hours. Their brain treats the feeling as new each time.
Learning and Touch
Touch helps us use our hands and fingers. It supports:
Handwriting
Buttoning clothes
Tying shoelaces
Using cutlery
It helps us know:
How much pressure to use
What objects feel like
Temperature awareness
Tactile defensiveness can distract children from learning. Their brain focuses on touch sensations that don’t need attention.
When There Are Tactile Processing Problems
Under-Sensitive
Holds others tightly before feeling pressure
Has a high pain threshold
May not feel food in the mouth
May self-harm
Enjoys heavy objects like weighted blankets
Smears faeces for texture
Chews on clothing or inedible items
Helpful strategies:
Offer safe textures like jelly or cornflour and water
Provide chewable items like latex-free tubes, straws, or chilled hard sweets
Over-Sensitive
Finds touch painful or uncomfortable
Dislikes anything on hands or feet
Struggles with hair brushing or washing
Avoids certain food textures
Only wears specific clothing types
Helpful strategies:
Warn before touching and approach from the front
Avoid hugs if they cause discomfort
Change food textures (e.g. purée)
Introduce textures slowly (e.g. flannel, toothbrush, different foods)
Use a texture box for exploration
Let the child do tasks themselves (e.g. brushing hair)
Turn clothes inside out to remove seams
Remove tags or labels
Let the child wear clothes they find comfortable
